Exactly. And they would argue to you that they are loving me. They can love me and still vote Trump yadda yadda. They don’t understand the distinction (some of them) of love means you can’t vote for folks who are going to harm me, and call it love. I write things like this partially to demonstrate to others it’s healthy and good to set boundaries with your family. Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me. They also hold others responsible for owning what is theirs.