Thanks so much! I am so glad this spoke to you. Please, please feel free to share wherever. Here is a link that will ensure folks don't get paywall blocked:

https://medium.com/p/raising-ourselves-on-queer-fam-and-gratitude-e43974308627?source=email-88290a1a6d34--writer.postDistributed&sk=8d82a8cd135a99d718654aa4dc2fcd51